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Play Party Etiquette
Whether you are attending a private sex party or a public club, there
are some good manners that should be followed. Obviously these rules will
vary for different parties, but here are a few good rules to follow so that
you don't become an unwanted guest and never get invited back again.
1. Don't be a sling lizard - In other words, don't get into a sling
unless you have a play partner. If slings are limited, give other people a
chance to use the sling.
2. Lay down newspaper on the floor before playing to collect any
spilled lubrication. You may also want to place a paper towel or chuck
under the bottoms butt. Wipe off the play area and the bottom completely
before leaving the play area. It is the tops responsibility to make sure
the lube is wiped off the bottoms butt and that the floor and sling or table
is wiped off and clean for the next person.
3. Ask your host what the house rules are. This includes where you
are allowed to play and what supplies you should bring (At CFN sponsored
events most supplies are provided such as lube, gloves, paper supplies, etc.
you should bring any beverages you'd like, snacks and poppers.). If you
like to play with toys, you should bring your own. Toys in CFN Playrooms
are personal property and should not be used. For CFN Play Parties, you
should arrive cleaned out. Touch up facilities are provided. For all
parties it's polite to bring your own towel in case you want to shower.
4. Don't just walk up to a play session and join in. It's best to
try to get some eye contact to see if they want you to join in. It can be
very distracting to be in a scene and have somebody just join in especially
if you don't want them there.
5. Keep unnecessary conversation and noises out of the play area.
Try not to have regular conversations where people playing can hear you.
Also, if you are a screamer or make loud noises during play, this may
disturb other guests. Some people enjoy the loud moans and groans but many
find it disturbing.
6. If you move any equipment around return it to the original spot
when done. For example, if you raise or lower the sling, return it to where
it was when you got there. Or if you move a table or chair, return it.
7. Do not share lube. This can lead to the transmission of HIV and
other diseases. The cans can become contaminated while playing so it's good
to write your name on the jar of Crisco or lube.
8. Wash off hands and arms and dick when done playing with an
antibacterial soap.
9. Don't walk around the party in street clothes or be a gawker.
At most play parties the guys are usually in jocks or chaps so that their
butts are exposed.
We are not the Safety Police, but we strongly urge you to play safely.
Safety issues should be discussed with your partner before beginning play.
What ever is agreed to between consenting adults is your business.
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